Why Men Live A Double Life
Many women want to know why men cheat. This age-old still has puzzled the female population, or at least those who had the first-hand experience.
Top reasons why men cheat are found below:
They are is something missing Men and women are similar, their emotions need to be attended even though you think they don't.
They seek constant reminder that their partner love and appreciate them. Without reassurance from their partner, men feel unworthy and begin to drift from attachment.What happens is, they seek attention from someone who can give them what they need.
It's in the blood
Animal shows on tv is enough to give you a clear picture on the reason why men act the way they do. The testosterone-filled creature's main job, aside from protecting the clan is to guarantee that his bloodline continues. Meaning, it is a trend that men knocks on someone else's hut just to continue his genes. However, this does not mean that men are predestined to cheat; despite his biology, men need to fight it-especially after a night of beer and a couple of shots of Jack.
As a sign of saying goodbye Most guys who fell out of love don't have the guts to say to their partner the truth- they simply do not know how to end the relationship. Perhaps because they don't want to make the first move or don't want to be labelled as jerk who ended something that is good. Instead, they tip-toe around to get their woman leave him for good.
As a reassurance that he is still attractive Once married a man (or a married woman) is expected not to flirt around other for the rest of his life, or at least until he is divorced.However, it is in his nature to look for something different. Think of your relationship as a playlist of songs that plays over and over again; it will be just a matter of time when you get tired of listening to it. Any male has to update their playlist when they are starting to get tired of it but if they can't get it from their wife, the tendency is for them to look somewhere else.
To get attention Men do not cheat simply because they need to have sex with another woman.
Sure, they have sex with other woman/women but that's not the sole reason why men cheat cheat. Men need attention but if it is not available at home, time will come that will get out and seek attention to someone else's home. Seeing you naked will do the trick for a while but what's important is to make him feel worthy of more than just shovelling the snow off your driveway.
Top reasons why men cheat are found below:
They are is something missing Men and women are similar, their emotions need to be attended even though you think they don't.
They seek constant reminder that their partner love and appreciate them. Without reassurance from their partner, men feel unworthy and begin to drift from attachment.What happens is, they seek attention from someone who can give them what they need.
It's in the blood
Animal shows on tv is enough to give you a clear picture on the reason why men act the way they do. The testosterone-filled creature's main job, aside from protecting the clan is to guarantee that his bloodline continues. Meaning, it is a trend that men knocks on someone else's hut just to continue his genes. However, this does not mean that men are predestined to cheat; despite his biology, men need to fight it-especially after a night of beer and a couple of shots of Jack.
As a sign of saying goodbye Most guys who fell out of love don't have the guts to say to their partner the truth- they simply do not know how to end the relationship. Perhaps because they don't want to make the first move or don't want to be labelled as jerk who ended something that is good. Instead, they tip-toe around to get their woman leave him for good.
As a reassurance that he is still attractive Once married a man (or a married woman) is expected not to flirt around other for the rest of his life, or at least until he is divorced.However, it is in his nature to look for something different. Think of your relationship as a playlist of songs that plays over and over again; it will be just a matter of time when you get tired of listening to it. Any male has to update their playlist when they are starting to get tired of it but if they can't get it from their wife, the tendency is for them to look somewhere else.
To get attention Men do not cheat simply because they need to have sex with another woman.
Sure, they have sex with other woman/women but that's not the sole reason why men cheat cheat. Men need attention but if it is not available at home, time will come that will get out and seek attention to someone else's home. Seeing you naked will do the trick for a while but what's important is to make him feel worthy of more than just shovelling the snow off your driveway.
About the Author:
Ivan Tart is a blogger and marriage counselor. He has been very active in solving marraige problems and providing women answers to different questions regarding relationship including, why men cheat.
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