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Top 4 Things I've Learned from Women Who've Dumped Me

By Kim Sanchez

Okay, I'll admit, I've been dumped. More than once. More than I'd like to admit, actually. And, while it hurts quite a bit each time, I have to say that I have grown from the experiences. So, here are some things I've learned from men who were dumped by women.

1. It's the two of you together. Do not play the blame game. it's the two of you together who made this relationship the way it is. You are part of the reason why your relationship is this way. examine what went wrong in your relationship so you can avoid the pitfalls during your next relationship.

2. Give your woman space. Give her a little time for herself. it may seem that she is always around to cuddle and to hug, but she also needs time for herself. Men tend to become possessive in a relationship. We might be stalking her by keeping tabs on where she going and what she is doing. You have to trust her. This is the key component to a good relationship. Invading her personal space can certainly lead to the end of a relationship.

3. Even if you are hurt, you will grow stronger and wiser in the end. What does not kill you will only make you stronger, as Nietzsche said. isn't it better to have the relationship end sooner than later if your girlfriend is not really meant for you?

4. Accept the truth, and the truth shall heal you. The truth is, you are not meant to be. Acceptance is the ultimate key to healing a broken heart during a harsh break up. If you are not meant to be, you are not meant to be. Like I said before, it is better that the relationship ended sooner rather than later.

5. Make things happen with a good plan of action. How can good things happen in your life if you don't act? So move your body into action while you still can. Control your reactions if you can't control what will happen.

This means that you have to go out on dates again and meet new women. Who knows, you can have another relationship. This time you are stronger and wiser than ever before.

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