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Avoid These 3 Hurdles to Get Your Ex Back

By Kim Sanchez

When you are in a new relationship, everything is so sweet, fresh and fragrant. When you have a new boyfriend or girlfriend, you feel as if you are in cloud nine. This happens all the time in the arms of a new love. This phenomenon is called the honeymoon stage.

You know that in any relationship there is a cyclical phase. The honeymoon stage, plateau in the relationship, blow-up, the break up, and making up. Making up for some cases in a relationship don't always happen, but take heart, most break ups can end up well for couples.

When talking about making up after a harsh break up, there are things that you may want to avoid during this time.

1. Do not be a pest around your ex. Be mature about the break up. This will get you the proper respect that you want from your ex and other people. Do not call drunk and avoid texting your ex multiple times. Avoid pestering your ex after the break up. You have to be smart and plan your move without rushing your ex.

2. Think about yourself more than anyone now. Do not obsess about your ex after the break up. Obsessing about your ex will only make you forget about your own interests. You have to stay active always. You need to find a good hobby and get into sports. Get your muscles moving and your mind thinking. Pamper yourself and always look your most beautiful. Looking your best will get your ex to think about you again.

3. Do not live like your ex will still get back with you. Do not show any desperate behavior. This is the time you need your mind and emotions in check. So live your life without thinking about your ex. Always look on the bright side and let optimism reflect in your behavior. Practice regular and will yourself to a positive attitude. This will help you greatly.

Avoid these three major hurdles and your ex will notice a new and more attractive you. Sometimes it's all about attitude and a positive outlook in life.

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