10 Tips on How to Flirt Part 2
Tip 6) Maintain Eye Contact: It is important to do eye contact the right way. Most people, especially guys, think that it means practically staring into the other persons eyes. That's just freaky. Maintain eye contact for the majority of the conversation and every now and then, when the opportunity presents itself hold contact for a second longer. This gives the impression of an intimate moment and will melt the other person.
Essential 7: Light Friendly Touching. Do it once to judge their reaction and really only do it if you feel that everything is going well. This can be easily done later on while walking to your table by gently placing your hand just over the middle or small of their back. See how they react and if the tense or pull away, stop touching and give them some room. Typically it is well received but you should only do it once or twice during your first flirt.
Essential 8: Check them out. Let your eyes wonder over them for a second, but only a second. Especially with women you want to compliment them without saying anything but you have to be careful not make them feel cheap. Break eye contact quickly check them out and reconnect. Do this only a couple of times (that's 2) and make sure to leave a lot of time between them.
Tip 9) Closing: Maybe you are a little shy, and that's okay. Try out the good-bye compliment. It's easy, you're about to leave and you go up to them and tell them you're leaving and you had a great time and would love to spend more time but you have to go. This gives them the opportunity to respond and if they don't ask you can take that step and offer them another chance to get to know one and other. This places a sense of urgency and since there is nothing that you can do because you must leave, they'll likely ask for your number or give you a chance to offer it.
Tip 10) Know When to Stop: Flirting is fun and you should always leave feeling good about the night. Once you hit that high point and you feel something for each other, wrap it up. Most people stick around too long. Flirting is like the appetizer if you spend too much time on it, your meals cold. If you leave them on that high, they'll be back for more.
Essential 7: Light Friendly Touching. Do it once to judge their reaction and really only do it if you feel that everything is going well. This can be easily done later on while walking to your table by gently placing your hand just over the middle or small of their back. See how they react and if the tense or pull away, stop touching and give them some room. Typically it is well received but you should only do it once or twice during your first flirt.
Essential 8: Check them out. Let your eyes wonder over them for a second, but only a second. Especially with women you want to compliment them without saying anything but you have to be careful not make them feel cheap. Break eye contact quickly check them out and reconnect. Do this only a couple of times (that's 2) and make sure to leave a lot of time between them.
Tip 9) Closing: Maybe you are a little shy, and that's okay. Try out the good-bye compliment. It's easy, you're about to leave and you go up to them and tell them you're leaving and you had a great time and would love to spend more time but you have to go. This gives them the opportunity to respond and if they don't ask you can take that step and offer them another chance to get to know one and other. This places a sense of urgency and since there is nothing that you can do because you must leave, they'll likely ask for your number or give you a chance to offer it.
Tip 10) Know When to Stop: Flirting is fun and you should always leave feeling good about the night. Once you hit that high point and you feel something for each other, wrap it up. Most people stick around too long. Flirting is like the appetizer if you spend too much time on it, your meals cold. If you leave them on that high, they'll be back for more.
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