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Different Ways to Get My Ex Boyfriend Back

By Faith J. Wyse

If you are sitting around after a breakup thinking "I want ways to get my ex boyfriend back" here are 5 ways you can start on the path to getting him back starting today.

Relationships are unique bonds that can be definitely broken if they are not nurtured or permitted to grow naturally. When a breakup occurs it can be particularly stressful and very upsetting. Among the easiest and quickest ways to get your ex back is also one of the best ways to repair your relationship absolutely because you will be taking the time to let your ex recognize just how important you are to them and what it was they originally fell in love with about you.

First:

Very easily, be yourself. You recall the way you were when you initially got together? Begin acting like the girl he fell in love with and you can be confident he will begin to notice almost immediately. He may even wonder how he could have forgotten the things he was first attracted to. You will also surely feel a renewed sense of self when you begin to just basically be yourself.

Second

Always be positive and show strength in who you are. If you have ever had a needy friend or boyfriend you realize just how much of an annoyance and a turn off this can be for anybody. So if you are whining and begging, simply put: STOP IT NOW!! You need to show your ex that you are doing just great without him, you don't really need him, and you can survive without him. Believe me, guys really hate when you act like they no longer matter. He may be back the first time he sees this.

Third

Go out and have some fun with your friends. Let them be a diversion while at the same time letting yourself have some fun. Meet someone new (who knows, you may even meet a new guy) and live a little. While I don't really advise using somebody to make him jealous, this is also something that will make him call you almost at once. BUT.....

Fourth

Still if he does start calling, you need to either not take his calls for the first few days or even longer for the reason that if you leap overly fast he will most likely just end up flying the coop yet again. This may seem very tough in the beginning but you have to play hard to get if you actually want him back. No contact will drive him nuts and have him pleading for you to take him back. Just keep in mind that you are playing hard to get and if you wait too long, he may move on if he begins to feel you are in fact over him.

Finally

Lastly, make certain that you are ready to be flexible when it comes to particular areas of your relationship. Don't make demands on him to get his things this minute or you're going to throw them out. Do not play this kind of game as it really is just another ploy that will make you seem harsh and needy. Let him know that his stuff is available if he wants it but even though you will not hang on to it forever, he can get it when he's ready. This will essentially work better for you since the longer the time he has spent away from you the more he will begin to miss you.

Now you can frankly say to yourself "I know 5 ways to get my ex boyfriend back" so begin using these steps now and odds are you can get your ex back beginning today.

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